RE-humanize this Lent
Reflection Questions and ResponsesSee below the reflection responses and feedback from some of our members who attended RE-humanize the Lent. We offer these as a way to open dialogue and thus build relationships, something desperately needed in these troubling times.
Each week’s questions will be posted below the appropriate heading. (Jump to each specific week using the bookmarks in the beige strip below.)
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Week One
What are my initial thoughts about the connection between speech that demonizes others and potential violence as well as polarization? Did anything I heard in the presentations surprise me or make me see the issue in a new light? Might I be called to re-examine my own speech during this sacred season?
Week 1. Michele
Hi friends, Some of you were interested in hearing more from speaker Rachel Kleinfeld about prospects for political violence, including in the US....
Week 1. Barbara
The call definitely made me realize how casually we use words and how damaging they can be. Fasting from demeaning and dismissive words will be part...
Week 1. Nora N.
I really appreciated the various approaches of the presenters and the thoughtfulness of the messages shared. I had not thought I'd be- humanizing in...
Week 1. Jean D.
It was an excellent presentation and gave me pause to reflect on my own words that I use when I am so angry at some of the blatant disregards for...
Week 1. Jeremiah
I totally agree with living the acronym THINK, however it seems overly optimistic and unrealistic to have civil discourse when one or both sides are...
Week 1.Theresa
I was struck by the notion (and empiric evidence) that offensive violence is unusual and violates social norms, but defensive violence is commonly...
Week 1.Michael
The thoughts on the precursor conditions for genocide really caught my attention, especially how those seemingly unrelated forms of dehumanizing add...
Week 1. Nora
One of the advice tips made by Robert in being a Re-Humanizer was “actually get to know someone on the other side, be in relationship with them”.
Week 1. Joan
It was eye opening for me to realize my own tendency to demonize viewpoints opposed to mine in this polarized political US environment.
Week Two
In the Gospel according to Luke (4:1-13), Jesus is tempted by the devil to abuse his power as the Son of God in several ways. As a child of God, can I think of times when I have underestimated or undervalued the power of my speech, thereby causing harm, even if unintentionally? And times when I’ve underestimated the power of my speech to do good?
Week 1. Michele
Hi friends, Some of you were interested in hearing more from speaker Rachel Kleinfeld about prospects for political violence, including in the US....
Week 1. Barbara
The call definitely made me realize how casually we use words and how damaging they can be. Fasting from demeaning and dismissive words will be part...
Week 1. Nora N.
I really appreciated the various approaches of the presenters and the thoughtfulness of the messages shared. I had not thought I'd be- humanizing in...
Week 1. Jean D.
It was an excellent presentation and gave me pause to reflect on my own words that I use when I am so angry at some of the blatant disregards for...
Week 1. Jeremiah
I totally agree with living the acronym THINK, however it seems overly optimistic and unrealistic to have civil discourse when one or both sides are...
Week 1.Theresa
I was struck by the notion (and empiric evidence) that offensive violence is unusual and violates social norms, but defensive violence is commonly...
Week 1.Michael
The thoughts on the precursor conditions for genocide really caught my attention, especially how those seemingly unrelated forms of dehumanizing add...
Week 1. Nora
One of the advice tips made by Robert in being a Re-Humanizer was “actually get to know someone on the other side, be in relationship with them”.
Week 1. Joan
It was eye opening for me to realize my own tendency to demonize viewpoints opposed to mine in this polarized political US environment.
Week Three
Cardinal Sean O’Malley has quoted Pope Paul VI in saying that dehumanizing discourse, including racism, not only wounds its target but that the speaker is also “mutilated by their selfishness.” In what way might my selfishness–the perceived self-interest that causes me to distance myself from others with whom I am at odds–mutilate me? Has my image of anyone been “mutilated” after I heard that person use dehumanizing or demonizing language about another?
(Sources: See this recent talk by Cardinal O’Malley, as well as this 2007 post.)
Suggested action: Take a walk outside to find signs of the changing season, such as green shoots or blooms on plants springing out of older, dried out growth. Take a photo and use it to remind yourself that you can change–and others can as well.
Week 1. Michele
Hi friends, Some of you were interested in hearing more from speaker Rachel Kleinfeld about prospects for political violence, including in the US....
Week 1. Barbara
The call definitely made me realize how casually we use words and how damaging they can be. Fasting from demeaning and dismissive words will be part...
Week 1. Nora N.
I really appreciated the various approaches of the presenters and the thoughtfulness of the messages shared. I had not thought I'd be- humanizing in...
Week 1. Jean D.
It was an excellent presentation and gave me pause to reflect on my own words that I use when I am so angry at some of the blatant disregards for...
Week 1. Jeremiah
I totally agree with living the acronym THINK, however it seems overly optimistic and unrealistic to have civil discourse when one or both sides are...
Week 1.Theresa
I was struck by the notion (and empiric evidence) that offensive violence is unusual and violates social norms, but defensive violence is commonly...
Week 1.Michael
The thoughts on the precursor conditions for genocide really caught my attention, especially how those seemingly unrelated forms of dehumanizing add...
Week 1. Nora
One of the advice tips made by Robert in being a Re-Humanizer was “actually get to know someone on the other side, be in relationship with them”.
Week 1. Joan
It was eye opening for me to realize my own tendency to demonize viewpoints opposed to mine in this polarized political US environment.
Week Four
When was the last time you gave yourself the opportunity to have a serious conversation with someone with whom you didn’t agree, thereby allowing yourself to learn and grow? If you have avoided such conversations–or had them and regretted how they went–how could you approach the next one with a re-humanizing lens so as to be more open to growth?
Week 1. Michele
Hi friends, Some of you were interested in hearing more from speaker Rachel Kleinfeld about prospects for political violence, including in the US....
Week 1. Barbara
The call definitely made me realize how casually we use words and how damaging they can be. Fasting from demeaning and dismissive words will be part...
Week 1. Nora N.
I really appreciated the various approaches of the presenters and the thoughtfulness of the messages shared. I had not thought I'd be- humanizing in...
Week 1. Jean D.
It was an excellent presentation and gave me pause to reflect on my own words that I use when I am so angry at some of the blatant disregards for...
Week 1. Jeremiah
I totally agree with living the acronym THINK, however it seems overly optimistic and unrealistic to have civil discourse when one or both sides are...
Week 1.Theresa
I was struck by the notion (and empiric evidence) that offensive violence is unusual and violates social norms, but defensive violence is commonly...
Week 1.Michael
The thoughts on the precursor conditions for genocide really caught my attention, especially how those seemingly unrelated forms of dehumanizing add...
Week 1. Nora
One of the advice tips made by Robert in being a Re-Humanizer was “actually get to know someone on the other side, be in relationship with them”.
Week 1. Joan
It was eye opening for me to realize my own tendency to demonize viewpoints opposed to mine in this polarized political US environment.
Week Five
While we often think of political violence as involving many people (rioting, insurgency, etc.) or targeting elected officials, it can also involve acts or threats against ordinary citizens. A recent poll of nearly 600 local electoral officials showed that 77% believed that threats to their safety had increased in recent years and 17% had personally experienced threats, which often started with being demonized as “traitors.”
Ask yourself: How can I become more alert to potential violence or threats of violence taking place in my state or community?
Week 1. Michele
Hi friends, Some of you were interested in hearing more from speaker Rachel Kleinfeld about prospects for political violence, including in the US....
Week 1. Barbara
The call definitely made me realize how casually we use words and how damaging they can be. Fasting from demeaning and dismissive words will be part...
Week 1. Nora N.
I really appreciated the various approaches of the presenters and the thoughtfulness of the messages shared. I had not thought I'd be- humanizing in...
Week 1. Jean D.
It was an excellent presentation and gave me pause to reflect on my own words that I use when I am so angry at some of the blatant disregards for...
Week 1. Jeremiah
I totally agree with living the acronym THINK, however it seems overly optimistic and unrealistic to have civil discourse when one or both sides are...
Week 1.Theresa
I was struck by the notion (and empiric evidence) that offensive violence is unusual and violates social norms, but defensive violence is commonly...
Week 1.Michael
The thoughts on the precursor conditions for genocide really caught my attention, especially how those seemingly unrelated forms of dehumanizing add...
Week 1. Nora
One of the advice tips made by Robert in being a Re-Humanizer was “actually get to know someone on the other side, be in relationship with them”.
Week 1. Joan
It was eye opening for me to realize my own tendency to demonize viewpoints opposed to mine in this polarized political US environment.
Week Six
When have I spoken up for someone else who was dehumanized or demonized for their views? Was it someone with whose views I agreed or disagreed? What words did I use to object to their dehumanization and how did that go?
Week 1. Michele
Hi friends, Some of you were interested in hearing more from speaker Rachel Kleinfeld about prospects for political violence, including in the US....
Week 1. Barbara
The call definitely made me realize how casually we use words and how damaging they can be. Fasting from demeaning and dismissive words will be part...
Week 1. Nora N.
I really appreciated the various approaches of the presenters and the thoughtfulness of the messages shared. I had not thought I'd be- humanizing in...
Week 1. Jean D.
It was an excellent presentation and gave me pause to reflect on my own words that I use when I am so angry at some of the blatant disregards for...
Week 1. Jeremiah
I totally agree with living the acronym THINK, however it seems overly optimistic and unrealistic to have civil discourse when one or both sides are...
Week 1.Theresa
I was struck by the notion (and empiric evidence) that offensive violence is unusual and violates social norms, but defensive violence is commonly...
Week 1.Michael
The thoughts on the precursor conditions for genocide really caught my attention, especially how those seemingly unrelated forms of dehumanizing add...
Week 1. Nora
One of the advice tips made by Robert in being a Re-Humanizer was “actually get to know someone on the other side, be in relationship with them”.
Week 1. Joan
It was eye opening for me to realize my own tendency to demonize viewpoints opposed to mine in this polarized political US environment.
Week Seven
How has this Lenten process of considering the links among dehumanization, polarization, and political violence changed my way of thinking and/or behaving? What new tools have I acquired to cope with these issues? What’s the best tip I have learned to help me be a RE-humanizer? What new questions do I have?
Week 1. Michele
Hi friends, Some of you were interested in hearing more from speaker Rachel Kleinfeld about prospects for political violence, including in the US....
Week 1. Barbara
The call definitely made me realize how casually we use words and how damaging they can be. Fasting from demeaning and dismissive words will be part...
Week 1. Nora N.
I really appreciated the various approaches of the presenters and the thoughtfulness of the messages shared. I had not thought I'd be- humanizing in...
Week 1. Jean D.
It was an excellent presentation and gave me pause to reflect on my own words that I use when I am so angry at some of the blatant disregards for...
Week 1. Jeremiah
I totally agree with living the acronym THINK, however it seems overly optimistic and unrealistic to have civil discourse when one or both sides are...
Week 1.Theresa
I was struck by the notion (and empiric evidence) that offensive violence is unusual and violates social norms, but defensive violence is commonly...
Week 1.Michael
The thoughts on the precursor conditions for genocide really caught my attention, especially how those seemingly unrelated forms of dehumanizing add...
Week 1. Nora
One of the advice tips made by Robert in being a Re-Humanizer was “actually get to know someone on the other side, be in relationship with them”.
Week 1. Joan
It was eye opening for me to realize my own tendency to demonize viewpoints opposed to mine in this polarized political US environment.